Monday, September 26, 2005
My Daddy...Just Venting
Gran-Sissy & Pissy. I yelled at my Daddy a couple of weeks ago. His self pity and lack of responsibilty throughout my life is finally starting to wear on my last nerve. I love my Daddy, so much. I can't even explain how close we are but when he is down he likes to take me with him..he pulls me into every single day of his life and makes me want to go run my car off a cliff. I have always been "the parent" in our relationship. Don't get me wrong, I can't imagine what I would do without him..He has been my mom and my dad for the last 10 years..he has tried really hard to be everything he could be for me. I think he is trying to make up everything that happened with me in my childhood by being such an adorable Gran-Sissy with McKenna. He is wonderful with her. I just get frustrated with him. He thrives on making me a nervous wreck b/c he is a nervous wreck and has been all of his life. I understand why he is a nervous wreck. He has had probably the worst life of anyone I know (seriously). I will explain that someday. I guess I just expect him to be someone he isn't..I just want him to be financially secure, happy & responsible. He is none of those things really. It makes me sad. It makes me sad that I am such a bitch that I would yell at my own Daddy. BUT HE DESERVES IT SOMETIMES.
17 Comments:
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commented at 9:09 PM~
aww.
parents just don't understand.-
Kathryn commented at 10:43 PM~
I bet he never thought you'd pull something like this...
Chin up girl. You're a great daughter, just try to be patient with your Dad; he means well.-
Mind commented at 10:52 PM~
Mrs. Pissy:
Just a gentle reminder: If you can't fuckin' yell at your parents, just who the hell CAN ya yell at and have 'em love you anyway? :) Ya love each other and that's all that matters; the rest is superfluous bullshit.
By the way, I love reading your blog!!-
The Q commented at 11:36 PM~
It's obvious how much you love your Dad, so if he needs an occasional YELLING AT then so be it.
It doesn't make you a bad person or a bad daughter.
Your love for your family (ALL of your family) is so obvious & heartfelt.
Hang in there.-
Margaret commented at 12:31 AM~
hugs to you...
wish i could yell at my parents sometimes...i just know that it would be a complete waste of my energy...they wouldnt hear what i had to say... *sigh*
peace...-
pack of 2 commented at 1:37 AM~
You should have heard me yell at my paents for refusing to evacuate Hurricane Rita. Sometimes ya just gotta do it!
Shelly-
Leesa commented at 6:49 AM~
Yeah, I feel like a bitch when I yell at my Dad too.
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Vajana commented at 11:57 AM~
Great picture of the two of you.
I know I hate yelling at my mom and dad, esp. since my husband's parents are insane!
But sometimes it must be done.
I'm sure my children will not hesitate to chew my ass out in the future.-
Random and Odd commented at 12:25 PM~
RSG- You hooker ass bitch! I was going to say what you said! I was thinking it the whole time I was reading this post.
bitch.
Pissy, be nice your daddy...If I have to be nice to The Fonz, you have to be nice to Gran-sissy.
It is our lot in life.-
Pissy Britches commented at 12:53 PM~
He never in a million fucking years thought I would pull some shit like this.
I just can't believe I pulled some shit like that.-
Elizabeth commented at 5:40 PM~
Girl, take it from me. Parenting a parent is annoying as fuck. But we do it. Just try to be kind and not let him drag you down. I know my mother means well with her plethora of crap but sometimes I could literally sell her ass on ebay. I completely understand and you are so not a bitch.
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Pissy Britches commented at 6:36 PM~
SFGirl-Thank YOU! You are right. Sometimes I just want to choke him to death though.
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Michele in Michigan commented at 2:08 PM~
Pissy--I thought I responded to this YESterday. It musta just stayed in my head LOL.
I know what you mean about yelling at him & wanting to choke the living SHIT out of him. I loved my dad dearly, but I could have tied him up and stuffed him into a trunk at times, too!
One thing's for certain: no matter WHAT your relationship, you will miss them when they're gone.-
commented at 5:30 PM~
I wish I had the guts to yell at my Dad...his life sucked, too, but as long as he believes he's a victim, he is a victim. I get the impression your dad is like that, too.
Thanks for posting, that, Pissy. I know it isn't a pleasant subject, but I'm going through shit with my father right now, and knowing I'm not alone and I'm not a the only bitch makes it easier.
Michele is right, I've heard. At least my parents are alive, but I wish they'd get their shit together - or at least be patient while I'm getting my shit together because I can't fix me and them at the same time....
*hugs* to you, Pissy (and your adorable Lil' Miss Pissy!)-
Candy commented at 7:34 PM~
http://www.spawn.com/toys/product.aspx?product=2728
Ok this has nothing to do with your post, but have you seen the Motley Crue figures? I saw Tommy's in Spencer Gifts yesterday and its rocking. You totally need them.-
Pissy Britches commented at 8:34 PM~
JESSICA!!! THANK YOU for reminding me!!!
I WANT THEM SO BAD!
I saw them on line and heard that they were available at Spencer's but I haven't been to ours to see yet.
I have got to have that shit ASAP!
You are gonna laugh your ass off when I post of picture of my most recent Motley Crue order. More on that later!-
Pissy Britches commented at 8:35 PM~
Ok, you guys rock. Thanks for the advice on my Daddy. He is such a playa hater. He doesn't play fair. He wants me to feel sorry for him. I do feel sorry for him. I love him. What else can I do but love him. I don't know what I would do without him or without you guys!
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