Saturday, March 25, 2006
Have Fun @ Grandma's...
I came home Wednesday night to silence.Mr. Pissy had already discussed everything with her before I got here thank god.
She cried..she blames the school, her teacher..everyone but herself.
That is very typical of her.
She cannot start the Alternative School until April 12th, that is the next enrollment date. She has been shipped off to Grandma's for a few weeks so she will be plenty occupied.
We talked to the lady at the school yesterday. She was really nice. We were concerned about all the homework, lessons that she will miss between now and the time she can be enrolled there. The lady said not to worry one bit. That they would get her caught up and ENSURE that she passes the 7th grade, which she would not have otherwise.
The real kicker is. She must wear a uniform, EVERYDAY. Jeans, and not pretty girly jeans..RUSTLER man JEANS, yeh the kind you buy at Wal Mart...a navy blue tshirt, a belt (no frillies) and tennis shoes. No jewerly, nothing.
She is PISSED off about that. She will also be assigned an individual goal to meet each week. If she meets this goal, great..if she doesn't..not so great for her.
And at the end of May when the school year ends, if we feel like she needs to stay there instead of be put back in regular school we can make that happen.
She called her Daddy last night to ask him if he would come get her and take her skating (Grandma only lives like 20 min. away)..
Is she smoking crack?
When he told her NO, she proceeded to yell and scream and tell him that he is ruining her life and that it was her teachers fault she got kicked out of school. The she hung up on him.
Yeh, she is smoking crack.
Mr. Pissy and my step son left for spring break vacation just about 30 minutes ago. They will go to the mountains camping for a few days UNTIL we get there on Thursday. When I say WE I mean me, Lil' Miss Pissy, Gran-Sissy, Gran-Sissy's roomate Jimmy and Bobby (the shit tanker guy)..we all rented a fabulous cabin for a nice long weekend and guess who is not invited.
Yep, you got it.
She is REALLY PISSED about that.
To everyone who left comments on the last post..Thank YOU. It really did help me a lot. I was feeling pretty hopeless the other day. Thank you for always making me feel better. I promise I will return the favor. I love you guys. Fo' fucking real.
9 Comments:
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Monogram Queen commented at 2:23 PM~
Good for you and Mr. Pissy for taking a firm stand. I know it's probably not easy. For him especially since her Mom has the "issues" that she did/does he prolly feels he has to somehow "make up" for her. Ya'll are doing great. I like the uniform thing too,alternative school should not be viewed as easy or cool or fun.
I hope you have tons of fun at the cabin. You deserve it! Take lots of pics!-
pack of 2 commented at 8:34 PM~
Yeah....she's probably gonna be pissed for awhile. She's playing with her Dad right now....let the guilt trips begin! Tough love baby...you gotta do it for her now and I think that later in life she'll understand why. I hope everyone has fun at the cabin. I'm glad that you're feeling better. Big fat pissy hugs to ya gurl.
Angie-
pack of 2 commented at 10:45 PM~
YAY...glad to hear you are getting a handle on her...you know that you are or she wouldn't be pissed..LOL!
Have fun at the cabin!
We love you too!
Shelly-
Kami commented at 11:39 PM~
Sounds to me like you guys are handling it well. Yeah, she'll be pissed for a while.
Have a great SB! Oh, Bobby the Shit Tanker Guy!!!-
Pud commented at 12:41 AM~
She is just going to have to learn that some things in life aren't fair. Good Luck!
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Summer commented at 5:52 AM~
Excellent! Enjoy your vacay. BTW, who is Bobby the STG?
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commented at 7:59 AM~
I think you're doing the right thing if that helps.
This will give her time to think about things..I hope that grandma is tough on her and not cave about things though too.
enjoy your vacation from the guys and then your long weekend with your family.-
Random and Odd commented at 1:04 PM~
I went to my friend's house on my birthday and she has a 16 year old step daughter (her real mom died) and she was sitting there bitching about being bored. She was slamming doors and being an all around little fuck.
I told my friend, "I would have kicked her fucking ass about 15 minutes after getting here...she doesn't even know how much restraint you have."
She then admitted that she can't do anything because her real dad thinks she isn't 'that bad'.
I would have KICKED HER ASS for acting the way she did. KICKED HER ASS GOOD!
Pissy, I have to hand it to you...you're one strong bitch. I don't know what I would do if my kid got kicked out of SEVENTH grade. Oh yeah, I would have KICKED HER ASS!! and then CPS would have come and taken her away.-
hemlock commented at 2:06 PM~
I think that this is the kind of thing that she needs...some tough ass love.
Shit happens, and when you are the cause of that shit....you have to deal.
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